Ian is very into porn and magazines and pictures and he is very open about it and doesn’t mind telling me when he has master-bated and it really puts me off.
I really don’t feel right about knowing he uses other girls to relieve him self because that is something privet.
I have never been jealous about my ex’s using porn to do their business but with Ian it really does bother me and I don’t know what to do about it because I can’t tell him that it makes me jealous as he wont take me serious.
Also today Ian was going talking to me about Kyle texting me and I told him the truth that I had been texting him as I didn’t want to lie to him about it.
And i was telling him about the conversation and he wanted to see them so as I was showing them I remembered that Kyle had asked me how me and Ian were getting along and I had texted back saying… ( yea it’s going well… I don’t know if its going to be a long term relationship) and I tried to skip it and he had ago at me for hiding it so I said I was just being honest and I didn’t mean it in a bad way and in the end we had a massive row.
And then a few hours later we started getting along again and I was hugging and kissing him and I finally got the feeling to rip his clothes off and I could things heating up but he just kept turning me down and I just didn’t get it because I have wanted to feel like that about him for ages and then when I finally did he turned me down.
Maybe this relationship has fianlly ran its course because all we keep doing is arguing and we both find that we’re not sexually compatible.
How would you discuss this with someone you didn’t want to hurt tho, because no matter what way I put it it will upset him.